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#1 of 37 Old 09-16-2008, 12:04 AM - Thread Starter
 
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We had a miscarriage today. We are having a really tough time, but we are pulling through. We thought we were through the woods...
I hope the rest of you have a wonderful rest of the 9 months.
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I'm truly sorry for your loss. HUGS
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Oh, I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm sorry for your loss.

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I'm sorry, mama.
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Oh, no! I'm so sorry, Degas. Am I reading your sig correctly, this is your third loss in a year-- I can't even imagine, I'm so sorry you and your DH are going through this.
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Degas I am so sorry.

Mischievium, I think her sig shows a m/c in 2007 and 2008.

Ever-evolving mama to my beautiful Brynn, and my little dimple-face Noah .
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I am sorry mama
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I am so sorry and at a loss for words.

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Oh mama, so heartbroken for you So very, very unfair

Do I remember that you guys were going to tell you family over the weekend about the pregnancy?

So sorry
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Oh, I'm so sorry
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I am so sorry for your loss

Mama to three wonderful boys and a fabulous baby girl.
My heartfelt thanks to all those that have donated milk to others; you are amazing
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ohmy gosh... i am so very sorry...:

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's mama.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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So sorry Degas :-(

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Ohhhh no. Damn damn damn. I'm so sorry!

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So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers sent your way...
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I am very sorry for your loss, mama!

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I am so sorry. I know there is no perfect thing to say that can take away your pain. Just know we are all thinking of you.
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Degas I am so sorry.

Mischievium, I think her sig shows a m/c in 2007 and 2008.
Right, but it was 9/07, which was a year ago. Not that it matters, MCs are devastating no matter when they happen .
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So sorry for your loss, sweet mama. Hang in there, and we are thinking of you! to you and your DH.

Happy wife and also mommy to my two boys, 12-12-07 (c-sec) and 04-05-09 (vbac!) and another due in December.
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i'm so sorry...
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oh, no, mama. I am so very sorry.

Mama to 3 boys 

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I'm so sorry!

Christian wife, busy happy mama to 4yo DS, 3yo DD, 15mo DS, and #4, expected next spring!

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I'm so very sorry!!!! Take care of yourself!!!
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wishing you peace and healing.
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