We lost one of the babies - now both - Page 2 - Mothering Forums
Forum Jump: 
Reply
 
Thread Tools
#31 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 02:46 PM
 
iamama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: So. Oregon
Posts: 2,252
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
so sorry...
iamama is offline  
#32 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 03:20 PM
 
MI_Dawn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Michigan
Posts: 2,446
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)



Autumn (1990) Blake (1993) Zoe (2001) Dmitrios (2002) and William (April 2009) born still @ 39 wks - my 4ever
MI_Dawn is offline  
#33 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:08 PM
 
ms.shell's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 1,393
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
oh, mama, i am so sorry.
i didnt say anything before, because i was hoping your other baby would make it. but this happened to me last year. i lost baby b at 14w6d and baby a sometime the next week. so i know this is a really hard time you are having right now. i am glad you were able to have the d+c and get it physically over with. i am so sorry, mama. i hope you and your dp can support each other through your grief and please be easy with each other. of course you both need time to grieve, and that shouldn't be rushed, but i do hope you feel better soon and that you are able to join another ddc soon (if that is what you want, of course). I am so sorry you have to go through this.

Mama to 3 boys 

ms.shell is offline  
#34 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:13 PM
 
wobblykate's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Willamette Valley, OR
Posts: 3,233
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm sorry This is terrible.

Mama to one little blur, watching everything move too fast. Eden 4/10/2009.
wobblykate is offline  
#35 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:20 PM
 
calebsmommy25's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Ithaca, NY
Posts: 1,040
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself. I'm praying for you. :

caffix.gifChristine: Mama to bouncy.gif  DS 04/17/08  *Infant Stroke Survivor*  Always remembering:  brokenheart.gifbrokenheart.gifbrokenheart.gif

 

Took a 'break' from TTC and look what happened:  2ndtri.gif!!!!    praying.gif  for a healthy, full term baby to be born August 2012!!  Hoping for a vbac.gif!

calebsmommy25 is offline  
#36 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:22 PM
 
mischievium's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: in a van down by the river
Posts: 1,661
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Words cannot express how sorry I am . I'm sending you and your DH hugs and will keep you in my prayers :.
mischievium is offline  
#37 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:25 PM
 
mamato2boys's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: house of boys and a wee girl
Posts: 973
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so sorry

Mama to three wonderful boys and a fabulous baby girl.
My heartfelt thanks to all those that have donated milk to others; you are amazing
mamato2boys is offline  
#38 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:27 PM
 
SimplyRochelle's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Northwest Arkansas
Posts: 1,855
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so sorry! I know what you mean about not feeling like you can go through ttc again. It took us 14 months to get pregnant and I don't even want to think about having to go through it again. I can't imagine how much harder it was after ivf.

I just keep trying to tell myself that one day I will feel better.

Rochelle  chartnew.gifff: /home/simplyrochelle  Wife to Matt; angel1.gif 9/08; angel1.gif 11/12;angel1.gif 6/13;

Every day brings me closer to fulfilling my dreams of becoming a midwife and a mother  

SimplyRochelle is offline  
#39 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 04:28 PM
 
Azreial's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Gloucester MA
Posts: 2,404
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm so sorry

mum to Christopher (6/98) Elizabeth (2/05) twins Aaron and Dominic (7/10/06) and new baby Eden (4-18-09)
Azreial is offline  
#40 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 05:04 PM
 
herins's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 830
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so sad for you. I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. Take care of yourself.
herins is offline  
#41 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 05:33 PM
 
monica3674's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Metro Detroit
Posts: 341
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm so sorry
monica3674 is offline  
#42 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 05:38 PM - Thread Starter
 
Julia'sMom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 1,431
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by SimplyRochelle View Post
I am so sorry! I know what you mean about not feeling like you can go through ttc again. It took us 14 months to get pregnant and I don't even want to think about having to go through it again. I can't imagine how much harder it was after ivf.

I just keep trying to tell myself that one day I will feel better.
I'm with you there. I was so upset to hear about your loss. I think I'll just take it a day at a time and see what happens. I'm still in the "work until you're exhausted and enjoy a glass of wine with dinner" stage. I'm trying to see all of the advantages of not being pregnant now, but of course it still pales to the thrill of having a child.

J A with DD1 7/06, lost twins 9/08
DD2 12/09 & DS1 12/09
Julia'sMom is offline  
#43 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 06:21 PM
 
Ilek's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Winter Park, FL
Posts: 251
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm so sorry
Ilek is offline  
#44 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 06:22 PM
 
kai28's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Worcester County, MA
Posts: 345
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm so, so sorry. Take it easy and give yourselves all the time you need to get through this.
kai28 is offline  
#45 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 06:53 PM
 
crazyrunningmama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 1,459
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Julia'sMom View Post
I'm with you there. I was so upset to hear about your loss. I think I'll just take it a day at a time and see what happens. I'm still in the "work until you're exhausted and enjoy a glass of wine with dinner" stage. I'm trying to see all of the advantages of not being pregnant now, but of course it still pales to the thrill of having a child.
I'm leaving for Vegas Friday, meet me there and we'll have the We'd Rather Be Pregnant, But Since We're Not We're Drinking Our Faces Off Party. You were such a support to me during our IVF cycle and during my m/c, I wish there was something I could say to help you through this. Take care of yourself and do what you need. More

mama to two DD's, 7 and 3 (3 rounds of IVF and more FET's than I can remember)
crazyrunningmama is offline  
#46 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 08:35 PM
 
inky leeuhhh's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 1,853
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
i am so sorry, what a sad thing to go through. ill be thinking about you and your family

Leah- mama to Audrey born 12/29/03 and Gwyneth born 4/1/2009! Soon to be TTC #3!
inky leeuhhh is offline  
#47 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 08:40 PM
 
*bebe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 95
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Julia'sMom I'm so, so very sorry This just shatters my heart so I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through. As someone who has also gone through years of infertility treatments, including IVF, I know your road has already been long and painful. You should have been given a "free pass" after all you've been through. So many hugs to you, and I'm praying you have some peace and comfort right now. HUGS!!!!!!!!!
*bebe is offline  
#48 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 08:51 PM
 
riversong's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 1,783
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry, Julia'sMom.
riversong is offline  
#49 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 09:00 PM
 
luckysam's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: missouri
Posts: 197
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so so sorry, my heart aches for you both.
luckysam is offline  
#50 of 55 Old 09-24-2008, 10:21 PM
 
JenMidwife's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: PA
Posts: 2,673
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by *bebe View Post
...your road has already been long and painful. You should have been given a "free pass" after all you've been through.
Yeah that. I'm so sorry for your loss
JenMidwife is offline  
#51 of 55 Old 09-25-2008, 09:12 AM
jkg
 
jkg's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 1,392
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so terribly sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, mama.
jkg is offline  
#52 of 55 Old 09-25-2008, 10:13 AM
 
scrapadoozer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Maine
Posts: 3,768
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am so so sorry for your losses. You will be in my thoughts.

Jenny, proud maker of red things
scrapadoozer is offline  
#53 of 55 Old 09-25-2008, 11:14 AM
 
IncaMama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 4,436
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
oh no... this just isn't right. i'm so sorry.
IncaMama is offline  
#54 of 55 Old 09-25-2008, 08:40 PM
 
lovemybubus's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: strawberry fields forever
Posts: 294
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I can't imagine what you are going through right now. It is through tears that I type this. I am so incredibly sorry.
lovemybubus is offline  
#55 of 55 Old 09-25-2008, 10:22 PM
 
djoy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: LaLaLand
Posts: 90
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
So very sorry for you. Wishing you strength and peace in this difficult time.
djoy is offline  
Reply

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Mothering Forums forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Password:
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:

Log-in

Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page


Forum Jump: 

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off