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#1 of 24 Old 09-18-2008, 08:40 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I am very sad to have to go, I really thought this one was going to stick but yesterday at my first appointment we found that the baby who should be in it's 7th week doesn't have a heartbeat and is measuring around the 5 week mark. The OB said even if it was a 5 week fetus it didn't look 'normal' ...whatever that means. I am 100% sure what day it was conceived so it's definitely supposed to be farther along. My heart is obviously broken, I am very very sad to have had 2 losses now this year. It's weird going from being on cloud nine to completely heartbroken in the matter of a minute or two.
Anyway not sure how long my body will hold on to my but it will eventually end. Back to the loss board....sigh...

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sorry mama

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I am so so sorry....please take care of yourself.
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I'm so sorry to read this, Autumn, especially given your loss earlier this year. Please take care of yourself. We are all thinking of you and your little one.

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I am sorry for your loss

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I am so sorry to hear this.
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mama. You will be missed.
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I am sorry

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I am so sorry mama.

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I'm so sorry.
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MotherMama, I am so very sorry for your loss I know how you feel as I am going through the same scenario with a loss in Apr. '08 and with no hb at my 8wk visit yesterday. Please take care of yourself and I'll keep you in my thoughts.

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I'm so sorry

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I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel.
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Oh my gosh, I am so sorry. I can't imagine the pain. Here's the biggest hug ever...

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I am so sorry
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I'm so very sorry.
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So sorry mama, take care of yourself and your other lo's.

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I too am sorry wishing you peace.

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I'm sorry... I hope you heal quickly and the doctors can find out why this is happening. Hugs!

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I am so sorry

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Oh MotherMama, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope you and your husband and family find strength together - you'll be in my prayers.
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I am so so sorry for your loss.

Doula, Wife and mom to A (11/23/01) and O (5/7/09)
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im so sorry!
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