Howdy. i havent been here in years. I was an active member before the birth and while I was pregnant with my now 7 year old, and for a couple years before him. Oddly, I cannot remember my user name for the life of me. I went through my divorce here,as well as buried a child, and somehow veered away. I have had an emotional heart breaking year. My younger 4 boys were kidnapped by my ex husband, and this past June I suffered a 13 week miscarriage. Not sure why, as i normally have perfect and very easy pregnancies. I a with a new SO, and we are in the process of TTC. I know it is to help me heal with the loss of my children, but that doesnt change the fact that I want another baby. It is what it is I suppose. However, I am much older, 37, and am hoping that the amount of children I have had (6) and my age do not play any part in anything going a muck. My hunny has low T tho, so while I am very fertile, Im not sure how this will affect our TTC. He is on the andro patch, but it doesnt always "help" in that department.
Anyhow, it is very nice to be here, and I hope to make many friends. I live in Lehighton PA, Carbon County, about 30 minutes from Allentown. I am friendless, lol. My hunny is from here, I am a transplant and have only been here about 8 months.
Our stories have some similarities! I have 4 girls with a not so lovely x (I'm so sorry about your boys, I have gone through very short periods of him not giving them back to me but thankfully have always gotten them back). I also miscarried (about 2y ago), at 14 weeks, and have always had uncomplicated pregnancies. I am also 37! I know how you feel about the sense of loss (for me, just the miscarriage). I have felt like something was missing. I am now pregnant, and feeling really old! I wish you luck ttc!! I am in Ohio:)
Oh, and I'm new to this as well!
Its very nice to meet you:) We do sound very similar. Enjoy your new pregnancy!!! When are you due?
HI and Welcome Back!!
Glad that you found your way back again. I'm sorry to hear about the problems with your ex. That sounds heartbreaking indeed. Let us know if you need any help finding anything at all.
Adina mama to B 4/06 and E 8/13/12 (on her due date!)