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#1 of 7 Old 12-14-2013, 10:25 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi I'm Dorlee and I am here in hopes to get support. I am pregnant with number 6 and al) I have heard is negative talk. I am getting sad and worried I may not want her when she gets here.
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Hi Dorlee, don't say that I am sure you will adore her. Why so sad and down??
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You have a wonderful, dear, sweet baby growing inside you. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise because it just isn't true. It's not their business anyway. This was given to you, nit them.
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Hi, and welcome to MDC! We have a moms of many group you might be interested in joining, where you can share all the joys and trials of being a mom of many : D
Also, never let anyone make u feel bad about being pregnant (no matter what number kid your on) children are the most precious gift that this life has to offer!

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dont let anyone get you down that is your baby and yours alone not theres god meant for you to have her cause you are a good mom 


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My mom had 11 children and I LOVE being a part of a large family! It is so much fun! My husband came from a family of 4 and is often jealous of my family. He wants us to have at least 6. I thought it was a great idea until we had a few. Now I'm not so sure I can handle 6. But we are now trying for number 4. :)

 

Large families are awesome!!

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Hi Dorlee, I am soooo sorry to hear that. People should not say such things. I'm also from a family with 11 kids and I consider it to be the best gift and blessing in my life! I always tell people that my siblings are the best gift my parents ever gave me or could have given me. orngbiggrin.gif and my husband and I want tons of kids, as many as god will give us. Hopefully at least 11 wink1.gif. Anyway, I just wanted to encourage you because I know pregnancy can be tough and the young years can be challenging but they are also very rewarding and over in a super short amount of time. Justthink of how many people you'll be with around the dinner table at Thanksgiving when they are grown up! The work and love you put into them is an incredible investment... I'm sure you get the joy they can return now in a cuddle, a laugh, ect and thats even in the midst of the most 'giving-of-yourself' period of their development. Life has its ebb and flow and I have a feeling you will be like my mom and many other moms I know with a lot of kids that will say, "it was all worth it!" smile.gif

but please feel free to share more In this thread to let us know how you are doing! we are here for you!

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