Welcome sestephenson!! And congrats on your new little love So sorry you had to endure labor AND a C/S!!
I know you'll find lots of mamas here that have gone through the same thing.
Here's a few forums to get you started:
Healing birth trauma http://www.mothering.com/community/f/502/healing-birth-trauma
Birth stories http://www.mothering.com/community/f/166/birth-stories
All things baby http://www.mothering.com/community/f/17509/baby