What's up!? My new baby girl is just a few days short of a month old now. I tried for an unmedicated water birth, but ended up in the ER, sliced and gutted =/. Oh well. Recovery has been rough, but I am finally able to laugh and sneeze without misery, wooyeah!! They say it takes a village to raise a child, but since I have no idea who any of my neighbors are, I'll have to find my own cyber one =) I want my child to be happy and confident and comfortable, and I have no idea what I'm doing, so I appreciate the advice of experienced moms (except for rude ones)