My name's Heather and I'm a new mum to Sage Elizabeth (June 4, 2005). I'm really enjoying motherhood so far. The best piece of advice I've received is to follow my heart, which I'm doing so now I'm looking to find some good responses to all those who insist I'm spoiling my baby (who's not even 3 months old!!!) by picking her up when she cries. Happy to find a website of people with similar philosophies!