My dh and my first anniversary is coming up. We'll be spending the day in SF anyhow, but he wants me to find a babysitter so we can go to dinner together and maybe go out for just a little while. My kids haven't been to an actual babysitter in 7 years. I always had a wonderful friend nearby willing to watch the kids for me. I've recently moved so I don't know anyone here not to mention the 16 month old has never been away from me. I don't want to find just "some girl" to watch my kids (really, I don't know if I want to find anyone, lol) but my husband and I haven't been alone together in almost 2 years because I was on bedrest durring my pregnancy and then the baby has been attatched to me ever since. I figure with someone great, who comes highly recommended, in the same city so she can call in case of emergency it wouldn't be too terrible. Any suggestions?