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#1 of 65 Old 12-09-2008, 08:07 PM - Thread Starter
 
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This really just sucks. I was still spotting today, now it's getting dark red and a bit heavier than yesterday. No cramps still. Dh and I are going to an emergency clinic tonight to have an ultrasound done. This is just the most horrible thing I've been through in a long time! How do people lose babies over and over from miscarriage and still keep their sanity?

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Hoping things turn out ok.

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I am so sorry Carrin that you are going through all of this. Stay positive.

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I'm thinking of you and your family tonight. :
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Hoping that everything is alright.

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Oh no, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!!
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oh mama!! gosh i hope it's all ok with you and the baby. :
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Thinking of you and hoping everything is alright

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Good luck! I hope your baby is ok!
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Oh!!! Please keep us posted! I'll look for your update in the morning, but I'm thinking of you and sending you the best.

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Will be thinking of you and hoping for a good update tonight/tomorrow morning. Hugs

Happy mama to DD (8-11-05) and DS (6-5-09) and married to my best friend and love of my life since 10-13-01.
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So sorry you are going through this.
Thinking of you and hope so much for a happy update tonight/in the morning.

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Oh no! I will keep you and your family in my prayers tonight. Please update us tomorrow!

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Thinking of you and hoping for good news

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you are in my thoughts!!! HUGS!

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Oh I've been there mama, I know how scary it is. Hoping you'll have good news to report soon...

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Please update when you have time - you have been in my thoughts all night.
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Yes - thinking of you and hope all is well.

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Well, we got to the center and the ultrasound tech had already left for the day. So, now we have decided to wait until my appt. w/ the doctor tomorrow (thursday). He is going to do an ultrasound in office. I'm still spotting off an on, but still no cramps, and still small amounts of blood.

On top of it all, the stress has caused my cold to spiral out of control. I feel like total crap! Whoa....was that my ear that just popped?

I'll keep you all posted as more goes on.

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I am sorry you didn't get any answers I hope your appt tomorrow goes well!

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I hope you can take it easy until your appointment and I'm praying that you get good news tomorrow.
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Oh Geeze, are you kidding me? How can the u/s tech leave? I'm so sorry you didn't get any answers yet. I hope the time passes quickly until your appointment tomorrow. Hang in there mama.
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OMG I can't believe you have to wait so long to get your ultrasound! : That's just crazy-making. But the no cramps part sounds good, promising. I've seen a lot of women here on the boards that bleed-- sometimes quite a lot-- and everything turns out to be fine. I think this will be the case for you, too.

To answer your original question about losing several pregnancies and staying sane... really, my sanity is questionable.

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