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#1 of 15 Old 05-20-2009, 06:23 PM - Thread Starter
 
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we officially have an office/guest room. halle-frikin-lujah.

DH finally had his last straw with the mother's day card dibacle. so he and ss had "the" conversation. and he is packing up his clothes in boxes and moving to his mother's house.

what he doesn't understand is that his mother will charge him rent and be harder on him than we ever were. and, well.... to put it in DH's words: "You've obviously outgrown being here and doing what we ask..." and made it clear the it had nothing to do with lilah coming home.

thank god it was amicable. and thank god i can bring my baby home (sometime) to a house of peace.

and DH just came in to tell me he is completely packed and will be out tonight.

so, for those who remember the whole, long story, i thought you would celebrate with me. :

Married to my best friend, expecting #1 6/09. Little angel came early- 4/10/09, 2lbs 5oz. Lilah Grace:
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::: I'm glad you're going to get to bring your baby home to a less stressful environment AND be less stressed yourself in the meantime!!

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WOOT!! That must be such a weight off your shoulders

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How wonderful that you will have a peaceful home again! And I'm really happy for you and dh that it was an amicable agreement.

Attached, homeschooling mom to Sam (10), Henry (8), Clara (5--now in public school Kindergarten) and Noah (2)

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How wonderful! What a load off your mind. Now you can concentrate on getting Lilah home without all the other worries.

Mama to my sweet girl born at home 6/09
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YAYYY! What a relief huh?

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How wonderful! :
In the long run this will probably be the best thing that could happen for the long term relationship between you, ss, and dh as well.

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:::

I just hope someday he will see what he has in you.
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I'm sighing relief for you! PErhaps this will be the first step to a more grown up man? Well we can only hope eh?!

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There was only so much that you could take.. I am very happy for you.:

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what awesome news, mama!!! i'm so glad things on the homefront are taking a turn for the better!
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Yay! Congrats to having the house to yourselves!

: Mom to a wonderful teen girl, a happy little boy and a cute baby girl
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I'm very happy for you!!

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Great news! Congrats!

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That's great news! Hopefully he will take if for what it is and learn from the experience. I hope that he looks back on this in hindsight and realizes what an a** he's been to you and his father. Sometimes it takes drastic measures for people to realize how they have been acting (and sometimes nothing will make a difference).
I'm sure it is such a relief for you!
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