I'm 9 weeks and 1 day postpartum and we've not yet DTD. I had a c-section, so no issues down there, so fear isn't a factor. I just don't have any desire. I've been depressed and am on medication, though I'm feeling pretty good now, I suppose it's possible that lack of libido is a medication side effect. I know from past experience that if I force myself when I feel like this, that I'm very unlikely to climax and the partial arousal results in increased blood flow to the area and me feeling very uncomfortable. It's also so hot right now that the last thing I want to do is by physically close to another sweaty body!
I could really use some tips on how to remain intimate with my DH through this.
Anne, Christian mummy to Nathanael 05/28/03, Ada 06/10/05, Grace 05/24/09