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#1 of 55 Old 10-23-2008, 04:34 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I had some pinkish cervical fluid last night...of course I couldnt get to sleep then until about 1 in the morning. So many thoughts were going through my head. I felt so positive about this pregnancy. I was doing everything right. I tried not to worry and eventually fell asleep. I decided I would take my temp in the morning and another pregnancy test. Well my temp went from 37.3 down to 36.9 this morning and the pregnancy test topped that off coming up very light - especially considering I just took a test only a few days ago and that test was much much darker. So this it is. Its over. I am just waiting for the pain now. I feel like the world it out to get me. What is wrong with my body? Why do my babies not want to stay put? I know these feelings will pass and I will be right back to TTC but you know...its just so hard to see that light at the end of the tunnel you know...

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oh mama i am so sorry

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Sorry hun. Take care of yourself the next few days.

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I'm so sorry mama.
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I am so sorry!
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I am so sorry to hear. I will be praying.

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I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.
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So sorry! Thinking of you.

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I'm so sorry.

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Hang in there....I'm so sad for you.

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I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
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I'm sorry for your losses. I hope they can figure out if theres a cause so you can put your mind into that and fixing it.
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Oh honey I'm so sorry

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Oh sweetie... I am SOOO SORRY!! Have you talked with your doctor? I hope they can figure out what is causing this soon! Hugs!! If you need anything let me know.
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Sorry mama, hang in there and keep trying. We'll be praying for your family
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I am so sorry to hear that. I am praying for strength for you over the next few days and weeks.

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I'm so sorry Ann.

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Ann, I'm so sorry. I really thought this was it for you. :

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oh Ann - Please take care of yourself and try not to blame this on you.


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Ann, Just dropping in from the May 2009 DDC to give my condolences! I'm so sorry for you loss. As this is your second miscarriage, I would definitely get your progesterone checked. Sometimes low progesterone can cause miscarriage in early pregnancy.

Good luck to you!

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I am so so so sorry Ann,My heart goes out to you.
I have had three now and it sucks,it really does.We are all here rooting for you.I was so sad to see this.I have been coming back to the ddc since my loss just to check in on everyone

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I'm so sorry Ann. I'll be thinking about you.


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That is really sad. I am so sorry. I hope you can find out if there is a problem and maybe get treatment.
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Oh Ann, I'm so so sorry.
Take care of yourself, we will all miss you and will be thinking of you
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I'm sorry. We are all sad to see you leave. Take care of yourself

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Oh Ann, I am so sorry to hear your news. Please take care of yourself and talk to your doctor. Thinking of you ...
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I am sorry, Ann. for your baby

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I've really enjoyed having you in our DDC and I'm going to miss you I'm so sorry you're going through this again.
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