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#1 of 17 Old 11-07-2008, 09:16 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Sorry for a sad post. We had an u/s today and it turns out my intuitions earlier on were right. There was no embryo left and the gest. sac is too small, so now we are just waiting until everything passes (and hoping it comes soon so we don't have to think seriously about taking medication to make it pass). In a way it's okay... I never felt quite attached or entirely comfortable with this pregnancy like I had expected to, so thankfully my intuition was preparing me. There are just lots of disappointing things (for example, it's our first pregnancy, and instead of telling my mom she's having a grandbaby, I'm telling her I had a m/c. And having to wait so long to try again - June is such a good month to have a baby). Anyway, thanks for all the support here! Blessings to all of you and your babies!

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Emsparrow, I'm so sorry.

Mara, mama to two boys born 05/2009 and 04/2011, after four miscarriages. 

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I'm so sorry for your loss. My very first pregnancy ended in m/c too, and I remember how heartbreaking and disappointing it was Wishing you health and healing

Amanda , mama to my two boys: N (10/06) and : A (7/09)
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I'm so sorry, mama. I had a m/c the first time, too. I hope things complete quickly for you.
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I am so sorry.
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hugs I'm so sorry for all of it! I've never had a m/c so I can't imagine how that feels, but with my first pregnancy I really had a hard time with accepting it. It took me till almost the 2nd tri to not shake my fist at the universe and cry every day at the prospect of losing my old self. I'm thinking you must have quite the mixed bag of emotions right now and I just want to give you a big hug.

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I am so sorry.

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My first ended in loss also. Take it easy

Mama to my little social butterfly 6/13/09

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I'm so sorry.

Bethany, mama to M (9), J (7), S (4), and baby BOY 9/13/10!!
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I am so sorry ...
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Much love Em.
I'm very sorry.

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i'm sorry
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thank you so much for the support. everyone (on here and in my "real" life) has been so kind.

mama to my girl (b. oct. 2010), cding, cosleeping, babywearing, trying to ec.
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Add me to the list of my first being a m/c too. I got PG with DS RIGHT after my m/c, and he was born alive and healthy 41 weeks later!

Take care of yourself.

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I'm sorry too. Take care of yourself.

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I'm sorry, Hugs to you.

Mom to 4, & a Baby Girl in Heaven 01/2009. Missing my New Angel 12/2009
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So sorry to hear! *hugs*

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