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Old 11-09-2008, 10:43 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Wednesday night I started feeling sore and unwell - though it was similar to what I had thought were just bad gas pains. When I woke up Thursday still feeling crappy I called the dr. We got u/s at 3:30 and of course when the tech doesn't show you anything you know it's not good. Pregnancy was ectopic and quite large since we were at 9.5 weeks already. I had surgery at 7 Thursday night and my tube ruptured while they were trying to see if they could save it. We were home by midnight. I'm quite sore. And torn - I had 3 previous m/c but this one is different since my life was also at risk. So I'm taking it easy and enjoying nursing my 21 mo dd and getting cuddles and smiles from her.

Hope everyone else has a healthy and happy pregnancy and delivery.

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Old 11-09-2008, 10:46 PM
 
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I'm so sorry to hear about that. Take care of yourself

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Oh my, what a scare. I'm so sorry for your loss, and glad to hear you got the treatment you needed. I didn't know ectopic pregnancies could take so long to make themselves known.
Take care

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Old 11-09-2008, 10:48 PM
 
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Oh my goodness! How scary! I'm really glad you're OK.

I'm very sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry I am glad you sought treatment when you did, that sounds terrifying. Thinking of you and your family.
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Old 11-10-2008, 12:08 AM
 
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I am so sorry, mama.

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I am so sorry! I hope you heal quickly.
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That is so sad...my thoughts are with you and your family!

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My thoughts are w/you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Old 11-10-2008, 03:19 AM
 
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i'm so sorry mama
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:HUG So very sorry for your loss, mama

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Oh, mama, I'm so sorry for your loss! HUGS!

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I am so sorry.
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Oh I am so sorry! I am so glad that you are okay! Take care of yourself.
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I am sorry. Take care of yourself.
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I'm so sorry.
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I am sorry, Mama. for your lost one.

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Old 11-10-2008, 04:20 PM
 
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So Sorry Mama

Please take care of yourself.

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I'm so sorry, but am glad you are okay!
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I am sorry Sending you some healing vibes.

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Old 11-10-2008, 07:26 PM
 
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I'm so sorry! I hope that you are healing.

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I'm sorry for your loss and so glad you are okay.
Hoping you heal quickly.

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I'm so sorry. I hope you heal quickly
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