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#1 of 18 Old 11-11-2008, 03:26 PM - Thread Starter
 
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So I have had the menstrual like cramps that in another thread I assured everyone is normal. I had them with my three other pregnancies, all ending with healthy babies. However, yesterday (I'm in my 9th week) I had some pretty moderate cramping, as in I'd like to take some tylenol cramping. Plus I had NO m/s. This morning I did feel icky when I woke up, but that's it. And now I went to the bathroom and when I wiped I had brown blood on the TP. This really sucks. I know things could be fine, but for some reason I can't stop myself from thinking that this baby isn't going to stick, or maybey stopped growing weeks ago.

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are you 10 weeks? Can you go in for a listen on the doppler?
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I'm sending you good vibes and good luck :

I hope everything is ok.

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Good luck mama!

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Lots of . I've been there and it is awful. You're right that things might be just fine. Thinking of you and hoping for a healthy baby.
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Thinking of you!!

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So sorry mama, I hope you can get some answers soon. Sending lots of hope for a healthy babe in there

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mama. i hope everything is ok. : for a
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Thinking of you...I had some bleeding and cramping with ds.
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Thinking of you and praying that all is fine with your little one

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Sending lots of : to you mama and I hope it was nothing ...
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Hang in there Mama! Sending you hugs a good vibes!!
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Thinking of you and hope all is ok. In a similar situation myself...

Happy mama to DD (8-11-05) and DS (6-5-09) and married to my best friend and love of my life since 10-13-01.
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Thinking of you and hope all is ok. In a similar situation myself...
I'll post over in your thread if you have one, but hang in there!

As for me, no more spottiing, cramping has gone to mild cramping and only if I'm up doing too much. This morning I woke up with horrible m/s which is actually making me feel better. I'm opting to not go in for a u/s. I guess if I'm going to miscarry it's going to happen and I can't do anything to stop it. However, this morning I'm feeling a lot more optimistic! Thanks for your thoughts and prayers and support!
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I'll post over in your thread if you have one, but hang in there!

As for me, no more spottiing, cramping has gone to mild cramping and only if I'm up doing too much. This morning I woke up with horrible m/s which is actually making me feel better. I'm opting to not go in for a u/s. I guess if I'm going to miscarry it's going to happen and I can't do anything to stop it. However, this morning I'm feeling a lot more optimistic! Thanks for your thoughts and prayers and support!
: That sounds so much better. There's nothing like hanging on the rim of the toilet to reassure oneself, is there?

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Glad to hear the update and hope the m/s continues and all goes well! Thanks for your post on my thread as well.

Happy mama to DD (8-11-05) and DS (6-5-09) and married to my best friend and love of my life since 10-13-01.
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I had bad cramping with ds turns out I had low progesterone issues. Ds was fine in there and I had no bleeding.

 
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So glad you are not feeling better Physically that is. I take comfort in m/s myself. Praying for a sticky baby!
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