on ds's 2nd grade teacher. I decided to take the wait and see approach and didn't send a note. I was so mad I couldn't really see straight. But she has never once figured out how upset I was. I am really good about being nice in public. LOL He's had fine days ever since. so as long as we keep it going status quo I wont hurt her. LOL I'm being silly here not serious. Like I said before I was a k, 1st grade teacher as well. I know the stress they go through. I just feel like she's telling me stuff that's not interfering with her teaching nor hurting anyone. If I get another note home I plan on telling her that so that I don't get tons of notes daily about him playing peekaboo at lunch. Thank you for all your advice for my 2nd grader. Hugs.