At least once a week someone asks me how he is doing. My response is generally, "he loves school" and right now, that is enough for me!
The resource teacher is very accessible and seems to be on board. She is VERY pleased with his progress! As is his speech therapist. The OT is boarderline, but that is okay because he is still getting OT privately outside of school and I have relied heavily on him and he has come through with flying colors !!!
His classroom teacher cares very much but is very overwhelmed. She is very willing to do what is recommended and is always willing to talk.
My dh and I have decided that this is a year of adjusting and learning a new system. The resource teacher, classroom teacher and tutor say he is making GREAT progress and that, combined with the fact that he likes school is enough for me.
The future is unknown, but that is true for all of us.