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#1 of 65 Old 06-03-2009, 01:25 PM - Thread Starter
 
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hi, mamas.

i won't post details here, i will post my birth story later in the grief and loss. but my baby matthew was born at 34 weeks on friday. he weighed 4 lb 9oz and was so tiny and perfect. i'm just in shock and i'll miss being part of this ddc.

btw, if anyone has had a similar loss, i would love it if you emailed me at christie.provost@gmail.com

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#2 of 65 Old 06-03-2009, 01:28 PM
 
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so sad for you as you miss your baby. Will be praying for you and your family as you grieve. for your sweet baby.

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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

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Words cannot express. I'm so sorry.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers

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I am so sorry

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I am so, so sorry! (((HUGS)))
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I am so so so sorry.

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Christie, I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby boy Matthew. You are both in my heart.

Me (42), DH (41), DD (7), DS1 (5) and DS2 Aug 02/09
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Oh Christie, my heart is breaking for you.

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Christie,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Right now I hover between the July and August DDC - I'm due with my 3rd in early August.

Last August my second son died after his birth. You will find great support and comfort over on the Loss thread - I know I have. There are many who reluctantly wear the same shoes.

for your beautiful Matthew

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I am so incredibly sorry, Christie. Tears are welling up and my heart is aching for you. I'm thinking of you and praying for you. ((((hugs))))
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I'm so very sorry, mama. You and your sweet Matthew are in my thoughts.

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I am so very sorry, Christie
You are in my thoughts and prayers
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I'm so sorry Christie, I wish you lots of strength. Thinking of you and your sweet son Matthew.
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I am so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry mama.

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I am so sorry for you loss.

I will pray for you, Matthew and your family.

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I am so sorry Christie.
Matthew

Chrissy, lucky mama to Noah (9), Lilah (6), Rowan (3) and Laney (1).
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I'm sorry *hugs* I'll be thinking of you
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I'm so very, very sorry to hear of your loss; your beautiful baby Matthew... you're in our thoughts and prayers.

Jess ~mom to DS1 8/05, DS2 6/07, DD 7/09 and one surprise 5/11!
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So, so sorry to read your post. I know words don't help much right now, but please know that we are thinking of and praying for you.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry.

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Oh mama, I'm so sorry.
we are grieving with you

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I am so sorry for your loss. May you be surrounded by love from those around you right now during this unimaginably difficult time.
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I am so sorry Christie. My thoughts are with you.

Matthew

Michigan native living in Jersey with my hubby, sweet girl (4), wild boy (2), and baby girl due Dec. 18th! 

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss mama. Feel free to come back and ask for any support you need here. I can only imagine.

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Oh, mama, I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say.. but know that you and your little beautiful son are in my thoughts s Sending many healing thoughts your way.

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