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#31 of 34 Old 08-11-2009, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted by bluebirdmama1 View Post
I am 12 days pp and I am totally not going to dtd for a while. Funny how not being able to makes you want to more. I was just wondering if orgasms are out of the question too? And will it hurt? Sorry but I have just got to ask.
I never thought to ask about orgasms. But, uhm... so far, I haven't had any negative side-effects. I was a little crampy afterward, but no pain.

I feel ready to DTD, and boyfriend is more than okay with the idea, but I want to wait until Monday's appointment with the midwife -- I'll be almost 4 weeks PP.

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You ladies are crazy! LOL I am waiting until my 6 week appt to get the "go ahead". I had a 3rd degree tear from my perineum down thru my rectum though and have No desire for anything to be anywhere near that. LOL

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Okay...i did it, lol!

One time at 2 pain until after...just a little, short lasting.
We've done it a few times since then and it's only gotten better - no pain anymore at all. Yeah, i'm still bleeding a *little* (some days nothing, other days i am...annoying!) but otherwise feel great.

As far as orgasms go...I've had a couple (with my vibe) and there wasn't any pain at all.

So i say if you are ready - go for it! Just take it slow
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Originally Posted by beansmama View Post
Okay...i did it, lol!
Me too! but I waited untill almost six weeks post partum. I was SO afraid that it would hurt. Plus, I've been too flippin' exhausted to think about anything but sleep when Baby is asleep, I hadn't really felt like doing it until thr last week or so.

It went well. It felt weird at first, but not painful. (I had two small tears inside that didn't require any stitches.) Worst part was, DD started to wake just as we were finishing so we had no snuggle time!

Good luck sexy Mamas!

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