I've had to cut Connor's nursing sessions short a few times, too, I just can't handle the sensations sometimes.
Ian has been coming to bed with me in the wee hours of the morning recently, and I'm finding that I actually like it! I guess he's feeling the need to reconnect with me. He's never done this before, he didn't cosleep as a baby (had severe reflux and couldn't lay flat) so for him to come sleep with me is unusual. But I don't mind it. Maybe you can try that?
Otherwise, I try to sit down with the boys every night and watch a movie together, read a book, sing a song, something just me and them.
Wife to DH who worships me (code for tolerates me) (2001), mom of one DD (April 2002) and one DD who arrived forcefully (Sept 2009) Caretaker of Boogie the cat and fish/reef hobbyist. Just tryin' to maintain... In major need of...
This time she's almost 7 and very emotional right now. Nervous about how things will change with the new baby.
Oddly, DD2 seems unaffected. Different personality, I guess.
they say funny things.....my 4 yr old DS said "baby, I love you real bad, come out"
2 yr old was telling me that one booby was for him and one for baby - today when I was getting out of the shower he said "baby come out, get your booby"
hope baby comes out soon!
: wife to DH, mom to DD (2004) DS (2005) DS (2007) DS (2009)