Hi risk is not only miscarriage, also high risk we are those who have a pregnancy before and have some problems during our pregnancy, I had abortion symptom up to the 6th month, also when I was 22 weeks start with preeclampsia and finally at my 7 1/2 month Gestational diabetes......all those thing are high risk too.
So I know what is being thinking if you are going to survive another week or not because I was bleeding since I was 4 1/2 weeks......
then with the preeclampsia was praying to have at least 27 weeks for baby that probably will be at least 6 weeks in the NICU (neonathal Intensive Care Unit).......
when I was finally over the 27 weeks my hubby's office sent him to work close to the jungle in brazil for a month.....then during that month...... Gestational Diabetes appear......
you know how I was...... give me a breath please!!!!...........Finally my miracle born at the 39 week healthy and strong...... now he is 9 years old.....and he never image what his mother do for having him.
It hard my dear, but we can survive and I am able to be bedrest the 8 month again for being a mom, the first time is a little hard, the next ones you learn a little more for take them easy.
The only thing that I know that since my son's pregnancy, I learn to enjoy any pregnancy as long as it is, because being afraid for 35 weeks is not healthy for anyone else....because the stress was worse that all the symptoms that I had.
Best than being afraid is having a good conversation with your Doctor, for doing the best for having a healthy pregnancy, think positive and enjoy it. Yesterday I miscarriage again (is my 4th time) but I enjoy the few weeks being happy and going to try again, because I never put my arms down. I did my best, had the dayly aspirin, all the vitamins, folic acid (I'm close to the 40's), progesterone, magnesium & finally my metformin, my Doctor was away from the country in a congress but anyway his office notice him about my situation, he sent me an email......a good comunication with Your Doctor is the best you can do for you, your baby and your healthy pregnancy...... the difficulties are hard any way, but they are more easy when you feel that you did your best and with your Doctor you are a good team.
Sorry for extend this long, but don't be afraid and think positive, If you have questions look for the answers, If your are sad look for a shoulder, If your are afraid look for someone who give you peace and is able to walk with you. Sorry about my english and I wish you understand my message.
A big hug for you
*** thinking positive help my dreams come true ***