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#1 of 40 Old 04-02-2009, 01:37 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Had my ultrasound, no heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D & C tomorrow. Thanks for your support. Healthy and happy pregnancies to you all and I hope to come back again.

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#2 of 40 Old 04-02-2009, 01:40 PM
 
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I am sorry for your loss and the dandc goes as well as can be expected.

Happily Married to my : 11 yrs- Mama to wild-eyed monkey boy 7-04, fiery little girl 4-07, and the happy smiley baby that sleeps 11-09!
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Oh no, I am so, so sorry for your loss!
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I'm so sorry. Best wishes for a quick and healthy recovery, and a new babe soon.
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oh mama. i'm so so sorry.

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I'm so sorry about the loss of your baby

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I am so sorry.
Can I ask why the rush for the d&c? I know of a person that declined the d&c and it turned out that the fetus was still developing and the pregnancy continued. Not sure how likely this is but maybe worth it to wait a week since you are still so early in your pregnancy?
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I am so sorry
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So sorry mama!

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry

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I am so sorry.

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Oh I'm so sorry mamma.

Take care of yourself.

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I survived 16 mos! Ask me about breastfeeding a baby with posterior tongue tie, high palate, and weak oral motor skills- whew!

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I'm so sorry.

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So sorry for your loss

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So sorry for your loss.

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Sorry for your loss

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I am so sorry
Take good care of yourself.

Mom since Oct'09. Wife to a loving husband. Expecting a little bean in May'12

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Reading this just makes me sick and breaks my heart. I am so very sorry. *HUGS*

SAHM to my sweet girl born in fall 2009

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so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry.

Kirsten, mama to Monkey since May 2007 and Bean born 11/7/09
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I'm so sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss!

joy.gif:Mommy to Lennon Elizabeth 11/27/09 and somebody new, due 10/08joy.gif:

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so sorry mama.

Wife to dh and mama to : dd (7/08) and ds (11/09)
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope all goes well tomorrow and it is not too (physically) painful.

Amy loving DH 5/04, raising DD 2/05 and DS 11/09; missing my mom& my babies 6/07, 12/07; and on the side
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