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#1 of 39 Old 04-05-2009, 01:39 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I miscarried last night. I'm not as devastated as I thought I would be. I think this last week prepared me for it so it wasn't such a shock. It was a perfectly shaped six week old little embryo, it must have stopped getting nourished at that point. I've accepted that it was just nature taking it's course in a pregnancy that wasn't quite right but will probably cry more before this is over. We will try again later this year and I bet the next time things will work out better.

Ladies, thank you for all your advice and support... particularly this last week. I wish you all healthy and uncomplicated pregnancies, you deserve them!

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I'm so sorry.

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I'm sorry for your loss.

Amy loving DH 5/04, raising DD 2/05 and DS 11/09; missing my mom& my babies 6/07, 12/07; and on the side
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I'm so sorry Heidi.
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Oh Heidi I'm crying with you. I'm so sorry. I really hoped it would stop. Take care of yourself.

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I am so sorry. I was due in November too, but had a very early miscarriage a few weeks ago. Good luck conceiving in the future. You will probably go through a variety of emotions in the next few weeks and months, so just allow yourself to grieve. Big hugs.

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Heidi, I am so sorry.

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Oh I'm so sorry, please take care of yourself.

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I'm so sorry.

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I'm sorry mama.
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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry. No other words will do.


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I am so sorry Heidi

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Sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could reach out and hug you now, and comfort you in any way! Keep your head up mama! Just remember you have lots of women who are here for you
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Happily Married to my : 11 yrs- Mama to wild-eyed monkey boy 7-04, fiery little girl 4-07, and the happy smiley baby that sleeps 11-09!
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Oh hon, I'm so very sorry. Please take care!
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so sorry mama.

Kerri, mom to Doran  angel2.gif  (born still 7/6/05 at 33 weeks), Mairaed (11/16/07),  angel1.gif 11/15/08 at 10 weeks,  Kieran (11/2/09).   angel1.gif 1/11/11 at 15 weeks
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Lauren- geek.gif Hippie belly.gif wife to  S Mum to : babyf.gif D 11/09 and due end of August!
 
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Oh no!! I am so sorry to hear this.

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i'm so so sorry heidi

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I'm so sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss.

joy.gif:Mommy to Lennon Elizabeth 11/27/09 and somebody new, due 10/08joy.gif:

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Heidi
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I'm so sorry....know the feeling

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I'm very sorry to hear that, Heidi. Take care of yourself.
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Oh, I am so, so sorry for your loss, Heidi.
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I am so sorry to read about your loss this morning. You and your family are in my thoughts.

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