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#1 of 40 Old 05-01-2009, 01:23 PM - Thread Starter
 
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So I may lose this bean. I they are not sure if I will but I had major bleeding last night I literally sat on the toilet for 20 minutes and it poured out Then I passed a at least 2 inch clot. I thought and my sister (I was at her house) it was the baby. I talked to my OBGYN he was wonderful he called me back in less than 5 minutes! He sent me to the ER he said as soon as I could go to go. The women in intake was wonderful she was so sweet to me she even bumped me up to get in there before anyone else I saw the sonogram women and we saw the baby (it looked like a bunch of potato's) But there was a heart beat! The head OB guy (he was awful I am going to talk to my OB about him!) came in he did check my cervix it is still close! But he saw where the clot was and said that I'm not out of the woods I still may lose the baby. But as of right now I am okay I am on light bedrest no sex (that part is okay with me the no sex part) We will see what happens!

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How very scary! I'm thinking about you and sending you and your little bean good vibes! Please stay with us, baby!!

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Thinking of you

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Praying for you and your baby... I hope everything is okay.

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I hope everything turns out okay... I will be thinking of you and the baby.

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Oh mama, take it easy! I'm sorry you're going through this. Hang on little bean!

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I"m thinking of you. Hang in there.

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I hope everything goes well, thinking about you!

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That's so scary mama, hoping everything turns out well with a beautiful healthy baby come November.

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Thanks Mama's I am super tired today at the grocery store my grandmother was walking faster than me! I bought myself some yoummy local chocolates and am laying on the couch eating them and watching soaps! Ds is in the front livingroom with STBDH playing video games

It is odd my whole body hurts but the bleeding is slowing down but I am a little crampy but not AF crampy so I am not sure I have an appointment for the 6th with my OB and we will see how things are then!

Thanks for the hugs and good thoughts Sally

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Praying for ya'll. Stay Strong.
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I hope everything goes well for you and baby.

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Oh my goodness! How frightening. I'm glad you were able to get a u/s right away and see the heartbeat!

Enjoy your chocolates. I hope all stays well.

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Will be praying for you and your bean Sally!

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Good to hear that there was a heartbeat- and you got to see it! My thoughts are with you and I am sending tons of sticky vibes!
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We will be thinking of you!

I just want to let you know that with my DD I had very heavy red bleeding at 9 weeks that lasted several hours and my DD was ok so I hope you have the same happy outcome!
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Hi mama. I saw this in the new posts. I had a hemorrhage at 11 weeks. It was very heavy, like a period. The next morning I passed a baseball clot. Red bleeding stopped 4 days later and I continued to bleed brown off and on until 16 weeks. I am now almost 23 weeks w/ a wiggly little baby so all is well. I had never bled in pregnancy before. It certainly can be scary. Just wanted to send some encouragement.

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My thoughts are with you and your bean.

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Hey Sally, for what it's worth, my best friend had a subchorianic bleed that bled itself out in her 9th week. She told me she absolutely gushed blood. She went to the ER it was so unsettling. But that 'bean' of hers is now 2 years old and raising h*ll, lol. Good luck, mama

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Hugs mamma. I too had a subchorionic hemmorrhage (if that's what you have). I haven't had any bleeding/spotting since 7 weeks or so, but it was terrifying nonetheless. Hang in there!

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That sounds so scary...but don't lose hope! I have a friend who gushed lots of blood (she described it as literally filling the toilet!), but then went on to have a full term pregnancy and 8+ pound baby boy! He is now 7 months old. Keep us posted!
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Well STBDH has let me sleep in yesterday and today (goodness did I need it I still feel tired and it is 10:44 but I woke up and there is no blood I do not know how I will beable to wait four more days to see the OB!

Thank you all for your replies! They helpped a lot to hear that others went through this and have healthy babies!

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A friend of mine had this happen at around 11-12 weeks and it turned out that they think she miscarried one of TWINS, but went on to successfully carry the remaining baby who is a beautiful little girl! The doctors were all set to have her go through with a D&C, but they saw another heartbeat at the u/s. Thank goodness she had an u/s before having the D&C...

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Hang in there momma. Hope all is still going well. Rest up. Lots of healthy foods!
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There is now bleeding but it is very light I have been resting but wow since that day I have been pooped out I cannot rest enough! We will see what happens!

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You are probably intensely emotionally exhausted, no wonder your body is craving so much sleep right now. Just try to stay calm, sleep as much as you feel you need/can. Keeping you in my thoughts mama.

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I am so sorry. Sending you tons of : I hope your energy picks up, and the little bean stays sticky!!!

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I had to change my OB appointment today! It was supposed ot be for tomorrow but Ds has a bad fever and I cannot leave him and anyways I have no one to watch him STBDH just started a new job yesterday! and he cannot take off or they will fire him So now my OB appointment if for the 12th at 1:30!! So far away

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opps worng post i hope you are ok tho hun!

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How's it going? Any more bleeding? Are you getting plenty of time to rest?
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