no idea what cut I want to get, probably just trim my bangs but if I do something exciting I'll post about it
As for my FIL... he wrote me this email basically guilt tripping me about having a babysitter (because I paid a girl to watch my DS for 3 hours - one time ever
- since he has been born).. he also tried to guilt me about depending on family for help
and how a babysitter or family support/help would damage DS in the long run (this is coming from a man who works full time, lived in a different country when my DH was a baby and currently has a full time live in nanny to raise his other kids)..
I wouldn't of been so pissed off but I am exhausted and fragile at the moment. I feel super vulnerable and from the minute DS was born DH/I literally both have been with DS 24 hour 7 days a week with the exception this one night where we went 10 mins from our apartment for 2.5 hours for dinner because I was so upset/worn out/run down..
This is the same FIL who sent me a text after DS was born 'welcoming the yuppie baby' because I wanted a birth center rather then hospital birth
and then he drops me this email basically saying we have messed DS up because DS was left for 3 hours with someone other then us.
It just didn't make sense, super hypocritical coming from him.. and I am so tired I think I took it much to much to heart and was really upset for a few days that he thought those things about our family.. I ranted to DH for a good 24 hours before writing back nicely thanking him for his 'advice' and concern
he can be such a jerk. sorry.. that was really a rant. I'm tired.