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#1 of 69 Old 06-16-2009, 09:28 PM - Thread Starter
 
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PTL! I just passed the baby, with no pain at all! I feel so much better..it's amazing.

I am thankful that this has been resolved, and we can have a few final moments. We plan to bury our baby later when dh gets home from work.

Thank you all so much for your comfort and advice. I really appreciate being among friends that get it!

Yesterday, my MIL told my dh that the m/c was a "blessing". Unfortunately, she just doesn't know what a true blessing is. It saddens me that she would not want another grandchild.

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I have had cramping throughout the pg, and now I am spotting. I also passed a tiny clot. My heart doesn't want to believe it, but my head sees the signs.
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i'm so sorry, youngwife. will you call a provider to check things out, or just wait and see? hoping the best for you.

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Thank you.

I have an appointment for Thursday morning.

Blessings,

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I have had cramping throughout the pg, and now I am spotting. I also passed a tiny clot. My heart doesn't want to believe it, but my head sees the signs.
I'm sorry, mama. I just had a bleeding scare, with tissuey stuff, and everything turned out fine. I had an u/s and it seems that a bit of the placenta is over the internal os, which is apparently a very common cause of bright red bleeding in the first trimester.

I'm not trying to give you false hope or be naive, but I really thought it was over for me and it ended up ok. Call your provider and get an u/s, just so you know what's going on. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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just relax for now, that is best for your body. I will be thinking of you.:sending some your way!

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I'll keep you in my prayers, Rebecca. Please let us know how you are doing, ok?

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Hoping good things for you, Rebecca. Praying that you feel the Lord near you.

married to my best friend since july of '93... mama to sage, who came when the pumpkins came in '05... and logan, who came with the hoar frost in january '10
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Praying for a good outcome.

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oh Rebecca, you are in my thoughts and prayers, I hope there will be good news for you Thursday.

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So sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking of you.

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I hope it is just a bit of spotting. Not to give you false hope but I bled like crazy with my first daughter. Had a scan, and she was just fine. I hope that everything is ok with your little one.

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I'm sorry, mama. I just had a bleeding scare, with tissuey stuff, and everything turned out fine. I had an u/s and it seems that a bit of the placenta is over the internal os, which is apparently a very common cause of bright red bleeding in the first trimester.

I'm not trying to give you false hope or be naive, but I really thought it was over for me and it ended up ok. Call your provider and get an u/s, just so you know what's going on. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you very much for sharing this. I pray that this is the case for me, but if not, then I am still thankful for having had the opportunity to carry this child for a few short weeks.

I will definitely let everyone know what I learn Thursday morning. I have continued to bleed (picked up a bit from just spotting), and passed more clots.

This would be my first miscarriage, of course I pray it's not. Thank you all very much for your hugs, prayers, and concerns. I truly appreciate your understanding.

Blessings to you all,

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Oh Sweetie!
I hope it's not a miscarriage! Think positive until you know for sure.

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Expat mama to my 7-year-old Halloween boy and my cheeky preschooler, who came before the midwife in January 2010... Gestating a new bean, debuting spring 2014!
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I am thinking of you during this time.

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thinking of you mama!

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sending you lots of positive vibes i really hope its not what you think

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29/07/09...baby Samson, lost at 16 weeks.
with DH for 6 years, looking for lots of sticky baby dust for our baby.
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Thinking of you, please keep us updated!

Bec, Married eternally to Dan for ten years. Parents to A (8/17/06) O (12/30/09) one love lost (2/07/09) and my little twin angels (9/24/11, 10/11/11)

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Thinking of you, Rebecca.

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I also am thinking very positive vibes for you and have been since yesterday, mama...

*HUGE hugs* XXXXX

Mama to Josie , lost 10/10/08 at 37.4 weeks .
and my rainbow baby, Isobella Mai ...born 1/12/2010 ! in profile...
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i'm so sorry

hopefully the babe is stressing you over nothing.

mom to Andrew   born Feb 6th, already a mom to child with fur; and still missing and still wondering about the lost possibilities Mar 17, 2009
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Praying for you and your babe.

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Thank you all, again, for your precious words of encouragement and support. Your prayers and concerns mean so much to me.

I have increased in bleeding, and passed a very large clot. So, at this point, I believe that if there is a baby living, it will be a clear miracle of God...but, He is capable.

But, if not, then I am at peace. I have six beautiful children, and not a thing to complain about. I would just like to quit hurting, now, and be able to move on.

Blessings to each one of you,

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Rebecca, that is so hard. Please keep us updated and be very kind to yourself.

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thinking of you today and hoping that everything is ok
and if not i hope that ur not in too much pain
((((((((hugs)))))))))

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29/07/09...baby Samson, lost at 16 weeks.
with DH for 6 years, looking for lots of sticky baby dust for our baby.
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