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Mommy to girls 9/2005, our angel babies 2004 and 2005, and our intact, ebf 4/29/2010.
I think you should call the aunt back yourself and explain that normally you'd love to have her stay but that with the baby coming it just won't work out this time. Surely she'll understand! If she comes on the week of the surgery or after it things will be impossible. Even if the surgery is scheduled for the week after you probably won't feel like entertaining and will want to set everything up for the baby and get some extra sleep. Can you ask the graduate's family if they could split costs and help pay for a hotel room for the aunt? She'd probably be more comfortable there anyway.
Tenk ~ happily married with lots of kids