AM I GOING CRAZY!??!! I don't know if I am just pre-labor/pregnancy emotional but I am so mad at my SIL! I don't know if I am overreacting but I just have to vent! I am a venter I guess.
Small background, SIL lives with M/FIL and leans on the heavily to take care of her kids.
We went to an annual family 4th of July swim party. Her DD has an auditory processing problem and is DEATHLY scared of fireworks. So last year she took her home and we ended up watching her ds even though she asked MIL to watch him, she was just letting him run around the pool (he was 2) so we ended up chasing him all night which was not fun. This year she decided to leave to go out with her boyfriend. Before she left her DS was very, very sick. He was red, puffy eyes and blotchy all over, hot, coughing and lethargic. He's normally VERY energetic. He was clearly very sick, probably the flu if you ask me. So she leaves him at the party and goes with her bf...and asks us to help watch him! The poor kid is probably highly contagious and needs to go home and rest, but she leaves him with all of us, not before putting him in the pool again though where he basically turned purple and was shaking like a leaf.
I'm just so mad because this is the second time she has done this to us, I cannot!!!!!! get sick! You know how our immune systems are anyway being pregnant, I just had a tooth pulled, so fighting that and then she hands a feverish kid off to us to play with DD?! She also brought him to our house a couple of weeks ago and after he's here, playing w/dd etc, she tells us he had a fever earlier. So I got really sick about a week ago, which traveled to my husband, and now my DD seems to be coming down with something. Right when I am due! (and our hospital is SUPER strict about this stuff) I'm just so mad at her for not caring about anyone else, just wanting to have fun and even leaving him when he is sick, poor kid! There are also tons of kids at that party who may have gotten sick from him.
To top it off the next day they invite us over acting as if her son is fine, we asked them of course, nope, still has a fever! We declined and at dinner, my other SIL told me, he even vomited. My MIL keeps acting like it's no big deal, it's JUST a fever...but it's not, it's vomiting, fever, cough, lethargic behavior... What's funny is that this is the woman that BEGS me to put on socks when I walk on a cold floor, and freaks if my kids go outside without a jacket when it's slightly cool or raining!
She also took him to swim lessons in which he had a fever and shivered the entire time in the pool. I'm sure his teacher will be very happy to get sick!
I'm just so mad at the inconsiderate behavior. Now when the baby comes I have to worry about them just walking in the house all sick or something because obviously they don't care. Ugg. I just hope DD doesn't get sick and can still come to the hospital to meet her baby sis! Needless to say we are in quarantine staying away from them. Unfortunately my husband has a fever now.
Small background, SIL lives with M/FIL and leans on the heavily to take care of her kids.
We went to an annual family 4th of July swim party. Her DD has an auditory processing problem and is DEATHLY scared of fireworks. So last year she took her home and we ended up watching her ds even though she asked MIL to watch him, she was just letting him run around the pool (he was 2) so we ended up chasing him all night which was not fun. This year she decided to leave to go out with her boyfriend. Before she left her DS was very, very sick. He was red, puffy eyes and blotchy all over, hot, coughing and lethargic. He's normally VERY energetic. He was clearly very sick, probably the flu if you ask me. So she leaves him at the party and goes with her bf...and asks us to help watch him! The poor kid is probably highly contagious and needs to go home and rest, but she leaves him with all of us, not before putting him in the pool again though where he basically turned purple and was shaking like a leaf.
I'm just so mad because this is the second time she has done this to us, I cannot!!!!!! get sick! You know how our immune systems are anyway being pregnant, I just had a tooth pulled, so fighting that and then she hands a feverish kid off to us to play with DD?! She also brought him to our house a couple of weeks ago and after he's here, playing w/dd etc, she tells us he had a fever earlier. So I got really sick about a week ago, which traveled to my husband, and now my DD seems to be coming down with something. Right when I am due! (and our hospital is SUPER strict about this stuff) I'm just so mad at her for not caring about anyone else, just wanting to have fun and even leaving him when he is sick, poor kid! There are also tons of kids at that party who may have gotten sick from him.
To top it off the next day they invite us over acting as if her son is fine, we asked them of course, nope, still has a fever! We declined and at dinner, my other SIL told me, he even vomited. My MIL keeps acting like it's no big deal, it's JUST a fever...but it's not, it's vomiting, fever, cough, lethargic behavior... What's funny is that this is the woman that BEGS me to put on socks when I walk on a cold floor, and freaks if my kids go outside without a jacket when it's slightly cool or raining!
She also took him to swim lessons in which he had a fever and shivered the entire time in the pool. I'm sure his teacher will be very happy to get sick!
I'm just so mad at the inconsiderate behavior. Now when the baby comes I have to worry about them just walking in the house all sick or something because obviously they don't care. Ugg. I just hope DD doesn't get sick and can still come to the hospital to meet her baby sis! Needless to say we are in quarantine staying away from them. Unfortunately my husband has a fever now.