Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Syracuse, NY
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I am trying to be fair to all of them and it just feels like it requires some snuggling time for everyone independently especially as they adjust. [...]I would like to do something similar with him as he grows gives me time to figure out dinner and do something to recharge for myself.
I am also trying to stress less about the small things like laundry housecleaning etc if it gets done great if not there is always tomorrow. I am dedicated to not letting the pressure of having a perfect home, perfect children all the time get to me. I am just focusing on staying sane and snuggling my kids. This is as good as it gets right now and that has to be enough. It is kind of freeing to feel this way.
Anyone else tweaking things this time? Letting go of the have to's and the should do's can be hard.