I love these comics! But they are indeed infuriating and leave me with a feeling of rage.
Ahh, the medical system...don't get me started!
Anyway, they might be a good gift, but I agree with you that they might also be offensive, or probably just saddening to women who have gone through these experiences. I probably wouldn't pick them as a gift for that reason, but also because my midwives' office is FULL of pictures/knicknacks/statues/mementos that they have no more room for. Perhaps your midwives' office is different.
I'm giving the whole office some sort of sugary decadent treat (someone else on this board suggested a cake or cupcakes). Being a nurse, I sure love when my patients bring treats for the floor so everyone can share them, and there's nothing like chocolate to perk you up during a long shift. Plus, it's eaten, so nothing to store or find room for in the end.