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This o's totally me. We were going outside for
Water play every afternoon it was nice and we haven't done that since she was Born. I just don't know how to incorporate her safely into some activities so we just don't do them. When I'm not feeling neglectful I'm feeling mean. I have no patience for any of the things he does anymore I feel like I messed up by having another kid not that I was perfect or our relationship was but we didn't watch tv and had a lot more fun before I got pregnant/had the baby.
Oh and when it's not my toddler, I feel like I'm screwing over my newborn. She doesn't get held nearly as much and has to fuss/cry more than he ever did because I just cant drop everything. I feel like its unfair to them both.
For me, the worst part is when 2yo DD is crying while newborn DD is also crying. I am tandem nursing, but have not mastered nursing both at once -- mainly cuz 2yo is super big, size of a 3.5yo, but of course she only has the skills/understanding of a 2yo so the positioning is
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