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Old 03-04-2010, 10:57 AM - Thread Starter
 
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worrying. I promised myself that once I saw the heartbeat I would quit worrying, and I fully intend to honor that.

Tomorrow morning at 10 a.m. I have my u/s. The last one I had was my unknown to me, missed miscarriage, and I had the shock of my life. I was pregnant for 3 more weeks and then had an emergencly dnc when I sprang a fever after 4 days of induced miscarriage. It was the worst week I can remember, and I'm looking forward to tomorrow's happy heartbeat. If I live through this day.

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I'm sure it will go great, let us know when it's done and you get to see your little one's heart beat!
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Good luck mama! I hope that the worry will subside and you will be able to enjoy your pregnancy! Keep us posted!

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Tomorrow is going to be a wonderful day! I'll be thinking of you!

What really helped me get through a similar worrisome stage with DS was to decide that I was going to enjoy every day of my pregnancy no matter how long it lasted. If it ended up being cut short, then it was all the more important that I cherish the days that I had. I suppose that could be seen as negative to some but for me thinking this way was like letting a huge load off my shoulders. I started telling people and letting myself get excited. By 16 weeks, I was genuinely confident in the pregnancy and I was glad that I hadn't waited till then to let myself be happy.

Hang in there and don't forget to breathe! We'll all be waiting for your happy news tomorrow.

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I totally understand. I had a m/c in December and it kinda steals your pregnancy innocence away. I told myself the same thing with this one - as soon as I see the heartbeat, I'm going to relax and be happy. It's worked - saw the little bean/heartbeat on Monday and I've been just fine. I've told several people and feel confident everything is going to be ok. It's such a relief.

Can't wait to hear your good news tomorrow!

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Me too, except that my US is at 12:45 and my missed miscarriage ended naturally (and I was on the couch incapacitated for almost a full week). Also, my regular cycles hadn't come back so I don't know how far along I am.

Hoping for lots of little heartbeats tomorrow!
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Tomorrow is going to be a wonderful day! I'll be thinking of you!

What really helped me get through a similar worrisome stage with DS was to decide that I was going to enjoy every day of my pregnancy no matter how long it lasted. If it ended up being cut short, then it was all the more important that I cherish the days that I had. I suppose that could be seen as negative to some but for me thinking this way was like letting a huge load off my shoulders. I started telling people and letting myself get excited. By 16 weeks, I was genuinely confident in the pregnancy and I was glad that I hadn't waited till then to let myself be happy.

Hang in there and don't forget to breathe! We'll all be waiting for your happy news tomorrow.


That is exactly what I wanted to say too.

It is SO SO hard to be in that state of limbo and fear. It's really truly awful. I wish you lots of luck and send you lots love. Please keep us posted!!! Hang in there!! Try to stay a little distracted today as well. Play with your other kids if you have them. DD has helped me more than she realizes dealing with my own pregnancy issues this time.

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