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Old 05-16-2010, 04:56 PM
 
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Just wanted to send you a I am so sorry you have to go through this.

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Old 05-16-2010, 08:43 PM
 
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Again, I'm so sorry. Keeping you in my prayers and hoping that you will be able to find peace and heal.

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I'm so sorry you have to go through this, I hope you are able to heal quickly.

Married to an amazing soldier in the Army for 7 months. Blessed with an amazing 3 year old son and expecting our little and hoping for a vbac or hbac!!
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I am so so sorry you are having to go through this. Thinking of you!

Life is to be enjoyed...not just endured!
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I am so, so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
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I am so, so sorry, Momma. I have been in your shoes two times unfortunately. My heart and prayers go out to you. I hope you are able to deliver your baby quickly. Afterwards, I found a lot of support in the Pregnancy and Loss forums here at MDC. Hugs!

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Thinking of you.
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There are no words.

Erica, wife to Jason (March 2002) . Mama to Ava (June 2003) , Jason Jr. [AKA JJ] (August 2004) , Lila (January 2009) , Maura (October 2010) , and a new person in December 2012!
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So sorry- that is heartbreaking news.

DH (34) and Me (31) 1/20/10 @ 5 weeks, Awaiting our October pumpkin due 10/30/10!
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I am so sorry.

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5/20/2010
Today I gave birth to an angel. Miles was born at 12:50am on 5-20-10, weighing 6.5 ounces and 8.25 inches long. His head was 6.5 inches around and his chest was 6 inches around. He stopped growing around 17 weeks, and was born around 20 weeks. He's going to be cremated, and then he's coming home.

5/21/2010
Today we picked up Miles' ashes. There was startlingly little in that package. We're still deciding what to do with the ashes, but we are going to plant a tree for him. Today was a much better day than yesterday. A full night's sleep with no drugs (the labor inducing and the pain pills) coursing through my system has done wonders.

Anyway, my best wishes to you mamas still here, and those of us just shadowing the group. I'll be thinking of you all come October.
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o mama, take good care.
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to you Mama! It's good to hear you are feeling a little bit better...I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

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Take good care of yourself mama

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All my love to Miles.

Happy mumma to my boys Henny Tom (Nov 30, 2008), Arlo Odie (Oct 5, 2010), and baby SISTER! due mid-Dec 2014.
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My thoughts are with you and your sweet angel, Miles

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Sweet baby Miles

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I am so sorry. for Miles.


The pregnancy and birth loss forum here can help...i have met many wonderful mamas there.

Please take care of yourself...

Happy mama to my four girls S 8.15.02 , L 04.25.06 (gone at 36 weeks ) and L 3.10.07.And another rainbow! Baby C has arrived 10.26.10!
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My heart hurts for you, Mama. Take care of yourself.

I'm a professor and a domestic goddess married to my ideal mate. We are living in bliss with our new baby girl, Rowan Graham, born October 8, 2010.
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I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this.. Stay strong, mama. Miles will forever be an angel. Sending many many hugs and positive vibes your way.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I really am and wish you much love and light during this difficult time

sweet baby Miles
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ddcc sorry for your loss
Miles

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