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with my belly!

and it took a bit for him to get enough air to let me know. I had absolutely no clue. How sexy was that???

I think sex has just gotten interesting in this house.

Children deserve the respect of puzzling it out.
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Things have gotten more... erm... interesting over here, too. But not quite like that!

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Sex? Uhhhhhhh....what's that?
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We had sex on the floor the other night - because DS was asleep in our bedroom. Maneuvering onto and then off of the floor was so awkward for me...I have no idea how he was still turned on.

And then trying to find a position that didn't have my on my belly or back and didn't require too much strength for me to hold myself up? Still working on that one...

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Sex? Uhhhhhhh....what's that?


TMI but my genitals are so swollen I won't let DH within 5 feet of them.

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Sex? Uhhhhhhh....what's that?
x 1000!
If we had a contest in this DDC to see who had the least amount of sex this year, I would easily win. I'm just saying.

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x 1000!
If we had a contest in this DDC to see who had the least amount of sex this year, I would easily win. I'm just saying.
Oh, I wouldn't be so sure about that
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*sigh* DTD? yes please...I would even risk suffocating poor DH if it meant I was actully GETTING action..lol
between the swollen gentials, the more then tender breast, the extremly to much fluid pouring from my regions and the bed rest....I am screwed....oh wait or not screwed....ya pretty much....

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We've kinda resorted to *ahem* other ways of being intimate because I just feel like a huge whale and my belly is in the way no matter what position we try .. dh is not a small guy either so we kinda bump bellies and it's just not a turn on AT ALL.

I guess we need to figure some position out we can do because when I'm due, I'm going to want to have sex to try and get things going. But man, the logistics of sex this pregnant are just not very pretty!

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There has been some DTD... but increasingly I feel like a lumbering, bumbling beach ball. We have to keep switching it up because my lower stomach muscles start to hurt from the exertion. Maybe it would work better if I wore one of those pregnant belly support girdles. Sexy
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DTD still happens here, and I'm happy about that... but it just feels like we have to have a game plan from the beginning! No randomly rolling into better positions or whatever. No, there has to be a PLAN. Rolling over is possibly the most un-graceful, not-sexy thing I could do. I'm usually happy with the outcome but I just don't ever want to get started, you know?

On the other hand, DH seems completely un-bothered by my clumsiness, tiredness, and hugeness.

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LOL at OP.

We're not doing it too much because DH is always gone, but when we do, it has been great. Things are extra sensitive.
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I am feeling lucky that i am already fat before being preggo because fat sex is just par for the course for me. I can't do missionary but everything else is still great. And frequent, so i amfeeling super blessed. I swear i am not gloating, i just never get to be happy to be fat

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I am feeling lucky that i am already fat before being preggo because fat sex is just par for the course for me. I can't do missionary but everything else is still great. And frequent, so i amfeeling super blessed. I swear i am not gloating, i just never get to be happy to be fat
Yeh, I am pretty used to being so round. I'm just not used to such rapid growth.
Thankfully for us, our usual and favorite position isn't influenced by my tummy. Maybe that is why sex is working well for us. We also have discovered it is the best way for me to relax at night when I'm feeling a tad grumpy and have restless legs.
Hopefully it will continue to work for us for the next 8 weeks, because we know it won't continue after the baby arrives.

Children deserve the respect of puzzling it out.
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Speaking of weird things while DTD......last night DH said he could FEEL something, stopping him, and it was hurting him....like a BONE or something!

WTH could that be!?!? Baby is breech so maybe a butt? or a foot? totally freaked me out

help?

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It's probably your cervix.

I know when we've tried to do a certain position that allows the belly to be out of the way I can feel dh hitting my cervix and it's very uncomfortable.

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It's probably your cervix.

I know when we've tried to do a certain position that allows the belly to be out of the way I can feel dh hitting my cervix and it's very uncomfortable.
woah....really! whew

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yah my dh is gone so no action for me. last pregnancy at this point it was a daily occurrence. and there wont be any for a long time.

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