Last summer, my DH and I decided that we were ready for kids. I stopped taking the pill in August and we planned on waiting 6 months or so and were going to start trying this spring. Ever since I was a little kid, all I really wanted to do for sure in my life was have a family. Recently though we've had a number of financial setbacks that have left me wondering if this really is the right time for us to start having children. Also about a year ago, I had this incredibly realistic dream of me holding a little girl who was laughing which has been in my memory since then. It makes me feel incredibly happy and hopeful every time I think about it. On one hand I feel like it's time for us to do this and we'll find a way to make it work, but then again I wonder if it's a wise choice to make when things are getting rough financially. Do you see us starting our family soon or within the next couple of years?
thank you so much!