I feel that this friend is really having some issues right now. Particularly with her marraige. I sense some infedility. I feel like she wants to run away from her problems.
I think the best thing you can do is call her up and lend her an ear. I dont think there is much more you can do than that unfortunately. She is going to have to figure this one out for herself.
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