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#1 of 5 Old 05-22-2010, 10:45 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Is Divorce the best possible out come for me, or is it possible that we can make it work? Is that two questions? Happy belated Birthday btw! I tried to leave feedback, but I couldn't figure it out.

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Thank you for the bday wishes! You couldn't leave feedback on the thread b/c there is time limit to change the thread. I understand your question, it's really only one question. I'll be back after I answer the ones I'm behind on.

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I do not feel that you will be able to make it work. I think there is too much pain here. Don't be afraid to leave, you will be able to take care of yourself. Like I said in the other thread, it will be much worse if you stay. And what I meant by that was the emotional toll on yourself and your kids. You cannot stay somewhere out of fear of being able to support yourself, or about being on your own, or will there be step moms in the future etc etc. Your unhappiness is palpable. I believe you said yourself "I think about this almost everyday, every waking minute" (I'm paraphrasing, but it's close).
Don't fool yourself into thinking that it will be better to stay. It will not. The emotional abuse will not end, it will only get worse. Find some support before you make your move. Get some of your ducks in a row and it will help you not be so scared.

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hmmmm. I knew you were going to say that, I just needed to "hear" it. Thanks again Jaime.

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You're welcome. Sometimes we just need to hear it.

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