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#1 of 2 Old 06-01-2010, 01:51 PM - Thread Starter
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Hi again, and thanks for all of your advice so far.

I've felt a bit of a shift in my connection to DH lately. I know part of it is due to my spiritual growth, but I've also seen some changes on his side. I'm cautious to be too hopeful, as in the past he's shown 'snippets' of his true self like this, but then he's just as quickly put the wall back up around him. I'm exhausted from the roller coaster. But I also don't want to abandon things if there's still a chance we can make it work as a family.

A few days ago I was confident in our decision to separate. Now...???

Do you think there's still hope for our marriage, or are we destined for the same patterns we've encountered in the past?

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Hi DancingAnne,

I am not feeling the connection between you and your spouse. I think you are right on the money that you would fall back into the same patterns if you continue to stay together. I want you to focus on continuing your growth while surrounding him with love to do the same thing on his own path. I do however feel that you will always be connected. I do sense a mutual respect for one another, but not a love/lust and passion for each other that you would like in your marriage. I feel like you are safe to set each other free.

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