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#1 of 2 Old 10-16-2010, 02:02 AM - Thread Starter
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My 18 month old daughter died this year, I have been struggling with the what ifs and the guilt and all of the pain that you can imagine that comes along with that.
I feel that a new baby will help us all, on our journey wading through this grief. I had a miscarriage last month and I would like to know if you see a baby in our future, and thank you.

Jennifer, Proud army wife to Michael. Mother to Emily age 6 and Megan, my little angel who is now forever 18 months old. I miss you baby girl (9-2-08 to 3-10-10)
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First of all, I am so sorry for your losses. And you are right, I cannot even begin to imagine. But I do know that the depth of what I can 'see' that you feel is indescribable. I want you to know that I can see the pain feels never ending. We have had loss of children within my family (My Mom's siblings) and I have been told by my Gma that you never truly heal completely, so I won't tell you that you will. But I do want to share that it does get a little easier at some point. I'm sure it's different for everyone. But my Mom lost two siblings at a very young age and a family I'm close to lost their teenage daughter not that long ago. They have told me it gets a little easier to face each day. And the pain isn't quite so bottomless after a long time. I just wanted to share that with you. I know I risk saying the wrong thing and I hope that I haven't. I hope that somewhere on a really dark day you may reflect on knowing that others that have gone through it and they say it will get a little easier eventually. Sort of like a mantra, if that's all you can do to get through that moment, that day, then so be it.

In answer to your question, I want to tell you that I see that you have two more children in your future. I think you will have a 2011 baby as the first and it looks to me like it's a possibility of twins or two very very close together.

I wish you healing of that bottomless pit of pain, so that it at least feels like there is cap on it, like it doesn't always have to feel that bad. I sincerely hope you know what I mean by what I am saying.

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