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#1 of 2 Old 10-23-2010, 10:55 PM - Thread Starter
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Hi Jamie... I have yet another question. lol

I know we have had some discussion about this before, but, can you help me understand why I cant seem to be happy with my husband (or want to be near him) , even when he is being nice and doing nice things for me? I just seem to feel alone no matter what. I am just trying to understand why I feel this way , to help me try to figure some things out.

I appreciate your help as always!

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You and your partner do not bring out the best in one another. You are not on the same page about much of anything. So although you have managed to create this life together and have children, that doesn't mean that he is your soul mate, which I believed we talked about. But more importantly as far as I can tell you two just don't feed each other mentally, emotionally or Spiritually. Like I said you are not on a the same page. That is why you can't be happy even when he is being nice. You don't want to be with him anymore in your soul, but logistics tell you to stay. Finances tell you to stay. Your brain tells you to stay. But your your heart and soul know better. So it doesn't matter so much if he is nice to you. What matters is that you are living out of alignment with yourself and your relationship is just one symptom of that.

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