I have to say that I am am unclear as to exactly when, but the number 13 keeps coming to me. Obviously there is not a 13 month, so we can draw the conclusion that it could be the 13th day of the month that you conceive, you deliver or it could be 2013. There is always a reason when I am given some information but not all the pieces to put the puzzle together. We don't always get to know all things. I know that's crap, but for me in my business, it's still the way it is sometimes.
I will tell you this, consider a couple of things. 1.Are you always in control? Is this a lesson in letting go and letting God? (and I'm not speaking of any particular belief, just the saying in general and it's meaning)
2.Does 13 have any significance. And I can tell you that contrary to popular wives tales that it's a bad number. It is not. I found this:
So there is a reason the exact time won't be shown to me, but there is importance in that for you to try to understand. As well as why it is taking awhile to conceive your 2nd child.