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#1 of 4 Old 06-04-2011, 09:24 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I've been sort of at odds with certain members of my extended family, which has left me feeling out of balance. Everything in me is telling me to just leave it alone and let them come to me, but I struggle with that decision almost daily. How can I get past this?

 

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They are energy vampires. They want to take all the time. They do this in many ways, but mostly passive aggressively from what I can tell. And the deal is that you don't typically feed into there energy needs, so that's why you are at odds. The best thing you can do is to not take anything personally!! It's totally about them, not about you, no matter how hard they try to make it seem about you. So you are right on the money about letting it go. And don't you dare let it get the best of you and make you feel out of sorts. You kill them with kindness when you're with them, but you don't give into their energy vampire needs.


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Thank you so, so much. I have been so upset over this, thinking I was wrong and actually second guessing myself for trying to ignore what has been going on. You totally validated my feelings. I half expected you to tell me I was wrong!

 

I feel so much better. Thank you, bless you!


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You're very welcome :)


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