Hi Jamie -
My question is about whether or not my dh has been unfaithful. There have been some signs and while we are starting to get back on track as a couple now, it sure would explain a lot and help me with my healing. Any insight you could offer would be greatly appreciated.
All natural sahm to dd1(12yo) and dd2(6yo). Married 16 years.
Time for the Master Tonic!
This is a yes and no answer.
I do not think that he has been physically unfaithful, although possibly close at times. But I don't get the impression he ever did anything with another woman.
However, I do feel his heart has been unfaithful. BUT I'm not so sure it's actually been with one other person. Meaning, I feel like his heart strayed in general from your marriage awhile back. And it's more like the energy of it. Like in his thoughts and fantasies he strayed. I think he's considered it and maybe even played with fire a bit...yknow, gone to a bar, flirted.
But I do not get the impression that he has actually cheated, unless it was more of a on line type of affair. But I'm not feeling a huge attachment to anyone in particular for that.
So what I want to say is, many ppl define cheating different ways. I feel at one point, yes, your husbands heart and mind wandered quite a bit. So energetically he strayed.
But in actual physical reality, I do not think he has.
I hope this has made sense.