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Old 07-02-2010, 03:22 AM
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss peace and love to you and your family.

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Old 07-02-2010, 04:11 AM
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I am so, so sorry for your loss. Kelly sounds beautiful. Healing love and light to you, mama.
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I am so incredibly sorry for all that you have endured. I pray for you and your family and your beautiful, sweet girl; that you all will have peace and comfort. My heart breaks for you.

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omg. NO! I just..cant believe this..I am sorry, so so sorry. I have lost a daughter too..

but this just devastated me, i know there is not much one can say. may she rest in peace,and you chose a perfect, beautiful name.

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Old 07-02-2010, 05:15 AM
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I'm so very sorry. I couldn't read this and not say anything in return. I can't imagine anything worse than what you are living through right now. My prayers are with you and your daughter.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Her name is lovely, it is from your heart.

I will keep you and yours in my prayers. There are no words.

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Old 07-02-2010, 05:28 AM
 
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I am so sorry.

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I am soooo sorry!
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Sending love.

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Oh my -- I'm so so sorry!
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I'm so very sorry. I love her name.

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Oh no, mama! I am so heartbroken and outraged on your behalf.
You chose a beautiful for your sweet angel. Go easy on yourself while you begin to process this and start the healing.
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I'm so sorry -- that's so heartbreaking. Peaceful, healing thoughts to you.

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There no words right now to help ease any of your pain, but just know that you are surrounded by love and support. Thinking of you and your family Mama.
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I am crying with you. Im so sorry.
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Oh Mama. I'm so sad for you. I was just telling DP about what happened, yesterday. Life is so, so fragile - and it's so easy to forget that.

I don't know if it means anything yet, but i think being in your own home and having that time alone with her will be so important to you at some point.

This is just so sad.

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i'm so very sorry for your loss please take care of yourself mama

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mama.

I am very sorry and truly hope that you are ok. My heart breaks for you.

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Kelly,

Words seem completely inadequate right now, but I am so very sorry.
How fortunate that she got to experience your touch and love during her brief time here.

Blessings,
Lisa

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I'm so sorry

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Wishing there were words to help ease your pain. I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter.

Her name is just beautiful - not corny at all - simply beautiful.
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Old 07-02-2010, 12:07 PM
 
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I don't know what to say. My heart breaks for you.

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Old 07-02-2010, 12:11 PM
 
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Oh Kelly :

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Wow... sitting her crying on the couch for you and your darling little baby. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I will be thinking of you and sending positive, healing energy your way.

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Oh Mama. I don't have enough eloquent words to share with you. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You and sweet Kelly are in my prayers.




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This is heartbreaking and tragic. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Old 07-02-2010, 01:51 PM
 
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I am so, so sorry. This is so unfair. I don't even know what to say-just that I am so sorry.

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May perpetual light shine upon her.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
I know there are no words to heal your pain, so I will just send you hugs.
RIP Kelly Beautiful Rain.
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I'm so very very sorry.


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