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#31 of 41 Old 05-16-2010, 12:54 AM
 
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I'm sorry mama.

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Oh Mollie, that is tragic news. I'm so sorry.

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Thanks everyone. I'm bleeding & cramping pretty bad now. It will either be tonight or tomorrow I hope. I'm calling my Dr. promptly in the AM, and I hope I can get the D&C tomorrow.

THis is by far the worst thing I've ever been through .

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Continued hugs Mollie. Have you been to the loss support board here? I got lots of support and answers there after my m/c last year.

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thinking of you, Mollie

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Oh, I am so sorry

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Thanks everyone. I've been OK today, haven't cried as much. Night time is the worst; I can't sleep, and I cry into my pillow. It isn't fair, I didn't deserve this. I want my baby back .


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Thanks everyone. I'm bleeding & cramping pretty bad now. It will either be tonight or tomorrow I hope. I'm calling my Dr. promptly in the AM, and I hope I can get the D&C tomorrow.

THis is by far the worst thing I've ever been through .
I waited for a week (stopped progesterone for a week) for my m/c to start and finally just scheduled a d&c and had it this morning. After miscarrying naturally at home 3 times before I can say that I preferred the d&c. I hope that everything goes well for you.

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Continued hugs Mollie. Have you been to the loss support board here? I got lots of support and answers there after my m/c last year.
Yes, thank you .

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Oh, I am so sorry

I waited for a week (stopped progesterone for a week) for my m/c to start and finally just scheduled a d&c and had it this morning. After miscarrying naturally at home 3 times before I can say that I preferred the d&c. I hope that everything goes well for you.
I am so sorry for you too .

I am bleeding & cramping again .

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I read a couple of these stories on here, that is why I went and requested a U/S at 8-9 weeks. (I was also on progesterone)

*why* do they not just *do* them? Why are we (at least *I* wasn't) not told this could happen?! How heartbreaking...

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Well, I had the D&C done. Pretty traumatic, never ever want to go through that again.

The hospital was very nice. They have a spot reserved at the cemetery for miscarried babies, so that's where my baby will go. We also got a tiny gold ring I'm going to put on a gold chain & wear around my neck.

Emotionally, I'm so drained. It was a very hard day, filled with tears. DH got the tree planted in our yard in honor of the baby. We bought it yesterday. It's a silver maple. It looks lovely. I don't have any pictures yet though.

I hope I can start healing now, both physically & emotionally. Will just take it one day at a time.

Thank you so much for all of the support you all have given me. It has meant so much to me .

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Please try to take care of yourself. I am so sorry you're going through this.

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I'm so sad for your loss. I've had a D/C and it was indeed a very hard day.

Hoping for your healing.


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