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I woke up this morning, sat down and felt a gush. Went to the bathroom, and it was blood and a good size clot. Seriously?????? 3 miscarriages in a row??? Cervix is closed but there is a lot of blood at the cervix. And of course, my mom, brother and sister just got here yesterday, don't know I'm pregnant, and I'd have to go to the town an hour away to get an u/s, so I'm debating just letting it happen. I'm not sure what they would be able to tell me anyway beyond that there is a gestational sac - I'm only 5w2d today, so too early for a heartbeat. Please be praying.

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Praying for you!

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I'm so sorry that you are going through that Praying for a miracle!

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Oh my....I am so sorry. I can't imagine how disheartening that is.
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I'm so sorry! Saying a prayer for you now...

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You are in my thoughts. Hoping for the best.

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That's terrible, praying for a positive outcome for you.

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Oh no, Rachel, you're in my prayers!

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Praying for you.

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OMG.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm hoping it's just some other bleeding event.
On the US they might be able to tell where the blood is coming from.

I'm praying for you, mama.

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I am sorry. I will hope for the best for you

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sorry. double post.

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Got a beta done this morning, and got them to check progesterone. They won't do an u/s until Mon or Tues (I don't know which day they will be open because of the holiday) and they want to see if the betas go up. I have some progesterone supps leftover from the last m/c so I took 100mg this morning and just put another in, and will do 100mg tonight. Then morning and night until I get an u/s. So far it has helped to stop the bleeding - so *crosses fingers* However, I know taht it could be just delaying the inevitable, but I know that since I'm still nursing DD, my progesterone could be low.

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so sorry sweetie! Hugs to you, that must be scary!

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I'm so sory. Ihope you get good news very soon.

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So sorry. Prayers!

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I'm so sorry. You and your little one are in my prayers.

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So sorry you are going through this. I hope its nothing and the baby is fine.

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Hi Mama, How are you feeling today? Did you get your beta and progesterone results?

Hope things are okay. I'm thinking of you.

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Just wanted to update - my beta yesterday came back at 3750 at 23dpo or 5w2d. The spotting has COMPLETELY stopped, thank God! I will be getting another beta and u/s tomorrow (OB insisted on the u/s - I think it's stupid because it's way too early to see anything and I wanted to wait until Wed. next week when we could see a heartbeat - tried to change it but she wouldn't). I think the beta will be more telling, and I'll update tomorrow as soon as I know anything - the u/s is at 10:45 am PST.

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Thanks for the update. I'm hopeful for you!!

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Thanking of you Please keep us updated.

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thinking of you, too...hoping for a good update tmw!

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that's some good news! let us know how the u/s goes!

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