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Old 07-01-2010, 03:46 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I'm out.

I've been having very very light brownish stuff show up once or twice a day for a week or so and didn't think much of it because there was so little of it. Today I had a larger amount of brownish stuff show up so I went to my OB and she sent me for an ultrasound. The Dr. their said that there was no heartbeat anymore and it didn't grow at all and it was showing as a fetal loss. I had an ultrasound 2 weeks before that showed a heartbeat and everything but then it seems about 2-3 days later it stopped growing.

Right now I'm waiting for my OB to call me back and tell me what to do.

I wish you all the best of luck with your pregnancies! Hopefully I'll be able to join another DDC in a few months or so.
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I'm sorry for your loss.

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I'm so sorry

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So very sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry mama for your loss.

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So sorry

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so sorry to hear your news

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Sorry for your loss.

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Oh no! I'm so very sorry for your loss....

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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So sorry for your loss!
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So sorry mama. Hugs to you and I'm sure you'll be joining another DDC very soon!

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So sorry for your loss, I wish you the best of hope and healing.

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So sorry for your loss.

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so sorry for your loss, mama

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I'm so very sorry!!
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sorry to hear about your loss

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I am so sorry.

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so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry for you loss.

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I'm sorry...

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Old 07-03-2010, 04:14 PM
 
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Oh, Jenofur, I am so so sorry. How very sad. Please be good to yourself

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