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#1 of 23 Old 06-30-2010, 12:02 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I woke up this morning, sat down and felt a gush. Went to the bathroom, and it was blood and a good size clot. Seriously?????? 3 miscarriages in a row??? Cervix is closed but there is a lot of blood at the cervix. And of course, my mom, brother and sister just got here yesterday, don't know I'm pregnant, and I'd have to go to the town an hour away to get an u/s, so I'm debating just letting it happen. I'm not sure what they would be able to tell me anyway beyond that there is a gestational sac - I'm only 5w2d today, so too early for a heartbeat. Please be praying.

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and prayers also. Keep us posted.

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Sorry you have to deal with this again.
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Oh no--- I can't tell you what to do but personally I would let it happen naturally at home. I would definitely tell your mum and brother what is going on-- you need to be taken care of! Praying...
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oh no! i'll still pray for miracle. it could be m/c or something like a SCH. i would see your dr.

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Yeah, I am definitely going to let it hapen naturally, I have done that with my first loss at 5 weeks and my second loss at 12.5 weeks. I have had SCHs with the 12.5 week loss and my DD's pregnancy, but the bleeding was different - more red. This is like pre-AF bleeding.

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With your cervix being closed, I am going to be hopeful for you!! Are you cramping at all? Did you dtd recently, or exercise? Pelvic exam? I hate that you are having to go through this. My prayers are with you (((hugs)))

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Thinking of you, Rachel. Keep us updated.

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DDC crashing -(wish i didn't have to)
but wanted to offer up my hugs and prayers Rachel....Please keep us posted. I hope it is just one fo those fluke pregnancy things.

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OMG Rachel!! your way!!! I hope that's not what it is for you! I've also had 2 early m/c & know that fear. But let's hope that 2 is the highest you'll ever have to count for those!!

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I am so sorry... I hope everything is OK. Please keep us updated.

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I'm so sorry. Sending up prayers that everything is ok.

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I am so sorry for your loss

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Just wanted to update - my beta came back yesterday at 3750 at 23dpo or 5w2d, and the spotting has completely stopped - so I'm cautiously hopeful. I know I'm prone to subchorionic bleeds (have had them with DD and with the last baby for sure) but have never bled like that with a clot before so it scared the ever living daylights out of me. I will be getting another beta and a u/s tomorrow (not that I think the u/s will show much but my OB insisted and wouldn't let me schedule it for next week when there was a possibility of a heartbeat). I think the beta will be more telling honestly - so here's to hoping.

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You are in my prayers!

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It sounds like things are pretty hopeful with the spotting stopping and your high beta number. You will be in my thoughts for sure mama. please keep us up to date!
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I am so glad the bleeding has stopped..praying for some great betas for you. (((hugs)))

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Oh that sounds like really good news. Stick baby, stick

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Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

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fingers crossed!

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any updates yet??? Thinking of you mama!

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