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#1 of 49 Old 10-31-2010, 01:31 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Well, things have gotten progressively worse over the past few days and I went in labor on Friday. The labor stopped, but the baby didn't make it. My DD, who is 5, thinks I killed the baby by sleeping on my back instead of sleeping sitting up like I had been (yes, she actually said that). She doesn't understand that the baby is already gone. I'm hating life. Don't know if I'll be back, but thanks for your support.

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I'm so very sorry mama. Rip sweet baby.

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I'm so sorry for your loss mama. You gave that baby every possible chance. Hugs {{{}}}
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Big hugs to you. I'm so sorry.

Mom to a 2.5 girlie and a new one in late February/early March
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I'm so sorry...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Be gentle with yourself...
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Oh no.

I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself. I'm sending good thoughts to your entire family.

---Jessica---Livin' my life from A Peace.gif(1/05 ) to Z  jammin.gif(4/08 ).....and z babyf.gif(3/11)

 

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Mama, I am so sorry for your loss.
I will be thinking of you, your sweet baby and family.


May, DH, DD born at home 4/08, DS born at home 3/20/11.
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So so so sorry mama . I know you already know this but I just wanted to say it- This was NOT your fault in any way. I am thinking of you .

Mommy to DS1 5/07 and DS2 1/09 , wife to an awesome hubby. And someone new coming in March!
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So sorry to hear this - this is clearly not your fault - it is hard to hear someone - even so young who clearly does not understand this - say that I am sure.

Hugs to you and I wish you the best in whatever happens next for you.

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DDCC - I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself

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I am so sorry momma. My thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
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Jenn- so sorry to hear this. My family will be keeping you and yours in our thoughts. Please know that this is not your fault. You did everything you could.

Aleyna - Mom to 6 yo DS1 wild.gifRascal and DS2 Tiny born 03/24/11
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Jenn, I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby. My heart goes out to you and your family. ((((Hugs))))
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Words cannot express, Jennifer..... I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Thinking about you and your family. Be gentle with yourself during this time of immense greif.

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Mama to F (3/09) and S (3/11); and never forgetting my babe gone too soon angel1.gif(4/10).

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I'm so sorry for you and your family. My thoughts are with you. *hugs*

Michelle, Happily married to first crush 4/2005, SAHM to DD 7/2006 , DS 8/2008 ,angel1.gif 4/2010, DD 3/2011, expecting DS 8/2013. 

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i'm so sorry to hear this. i am thinking about you and your baby.

Sara ~ one dh + one 5yo boy + baby in 2011
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I am so sorry for your loss. You did all you could. Your daughter will understand that as she gets a little older.

Adrienne belly.gif - Loving my DHguitar.gif, our daughter Harper Emaline ROTFLMAO.gif (3/2011), and maybe a baby?? jaw2.gif (5/2013)

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I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

mama to two sweet girls love.gif 8/05, fairy.gif 11/08, a handsome little guy babyboy.gif 4/11, and expecting another 5/13
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I'm so so sorry. Prayers for your healing and peace in your heart.

Our GREAT #8 due September 2012! joy.gif
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I am so sorry for your whole familys loss, but especially for you. Hugs sweet mama.

Angie - mom to Allie 12/01, Ephram 07/09  and Asher 3/1/11
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I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs to you, .
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I am so sorry mama.

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I'm so very sorry.

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I'm so sorry.

This Mommy and Military Daddy are loving their son.
DS born Dec 2010 Pregnant with #2, having another !
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I am so very sorry for your loss, Jennifer. Peace to you and your family.

Banana, doula wife to Papa Banana and mother to Banana One, Banana Two, Banana Three, Banana Four...

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I'm so sorry for your lost. :

Sand, Mom to three girls and a new SON!!!!  babyboy.gif Born on March 7th, 2011  I get to do these again:   bfinfant.gifslingboy.gifcd.gif
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Married Mom to K(8), K(7) & C born March 23rd.
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Oh mama, I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

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So sorry to hear mama. Praying for you and your family.

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